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Kathy's avatar

As a care giver to an elderly parent who has declining physical skills, I see her daily frustration with inability to accomplish simple everyday tasks. Cognitively, she recognizes the path of her aging body. I often wonder how absolutely frightening it must be as mental decline begins progressing…that period when the person is aware of the memory lapses…becomes cognizant of slipping in and out of that wicked veil that robs them of their being. I can not imagine of anything as cruel, except to be the loving partner who walks with them.

We lag behind in providing transitionary steps to care for our aging population. Availability and financial barriers leave so many to struggle without guidance or help.

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Steve Flora's avatar

Getting older is certainly challenging. Thoughts are with you, Fred. With you both. Steve.

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David Jenkins's avatar

Ann is lucky to have your assistance as she declines. My lawyer recently advised me to ask a friend to advise me if I begin to decline because the decline is so gradual that one cannot realize it on their own.

By the way, as you settle in, you may be interested in the Missouri Prairie Foundation, headquartered in Columbia with many events focused on conservation of native plants. I am a member and have enjoyed their webinars.

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Fred First's avatar

Briefly checked it out, know right where MPF is, and I will explore the website and upcoming events. And someday maybe be able to participate.

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